Love will find a way

Can one have love?

If we could, love would need to be a thing, a substance that one can have, own, possess.

The truth is, there is no such thing as "love." "Love" is an abstraction, perhaps a goddess or an alien being, although nobody has ever seen this goddess.

In reality, there exists only the act of loving.

To love is a productive activity. It implies caring for, knowing, responding, affirming, enjoying: the person, the tree, the painting, the idea.

It means bringing to life, increasing his/her/its aliveness.
It is a process, self-renewing and self increasing.

-- Erich Fromm

Salam Damai.
Kampanye Damai Pemilu Indonesia 2009.

Have mercy on your spine

Just a 'lil reminder :

click on the pic for larger image

Well.. sit up right when you are in front of your computer doing looooooong chatting, blogging or browsing




Salam Damai.
Kampanye Damai Pemilu Indonesia 2009.

Experience is ...

A little note:
Never mind the illustration
Just concentrate on the wording




Salam Damai.
Kampanye Damai Pemilu Indonesia 2009.

Discomgoogolation ... uffff

DISCOMGOOGOLATION ????
If he ever heard this word, Captain Haddock would have said: "Blistering barnicles, what on earth is that?!!!"

Hope I didn't misspell it :D

I came accross this word " D i s c o m g o o g o l a t i o n" when I visited Yehia's blog last nite. First I thought he was talking in his sleep (alias ngelindur *wakakak*) . Apparently he was not !!

It's a new syndrome, which according to a recent study, affected those who's life have become entirely too dependent to internet. It's is a feeling of distress or anxiety ones suffer when unable to gain immediate information access -- in fact, the condition could up brain activity and blood pressure level.

The terms "Discomgoogolation" comes from "discombobulate" (which means to confuse or frustrate or, acording to Oxford consice dictionary means: disturb, disconcert) and Google (the you know who ).

"The proliferation of broadband has meant that for the first time in history we have entered a culture of 'instant answers' a galaxy of information is just a mouse click away and we have become addicted to the web.

"When unable to get online, 'discomgoogolation' takes over. It was surprising to see the stress this led to in brain activity and blood pressure in participants. It seems to be especially stressful for people when they are out and about. ...................... ," David Lewis, who led the study team, was quoted by the Daily Mail as saying.

So ... if you often feel "lost" and distressed when you cannot get online/ gain access to internet to meet with your friends, or to do browsing or blogging (like some friends I know ) maybe you are suffering "Discomgoogolation syndrome" maybe I am too
But heyyy .... don't worry, you are not alone !!! At least nearly half of Britons, according to the study, suffer this discomgoogolation syndrome too.

Well I'm not going to go any further with this stress-related-syndrome. Sadly I just remembered that once I read in the news that one of the-indonesian-famous-public-figure said proudly that she communicates with her siblings online -- chat thru internet although at the very moment they are under the same roof, only in different rooms. Goshhhh.

"Too much of anything is not good for you". So I think we need to always conciously balance our life between the real world and the "faceless" cyber world -- and will not have to take too much effort in saying and spelling and curing "discomgoogolation".

source: uncle Google, inspired by:Yehia's blog





Salam Damai.
Kampanye Damai Pemilu Indonesia 2009.

Words Women Use

FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up

FIVE MINUTES
If she is getting dressed, this is half an hour.
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house

NOTHING
This is the calm before the storm.
This means “something”. And you should be on your toes. Arguments that begins with “NOTHING” usually ends in “FINE”

GO AHEAD
This is a dare, not permission. Don’t do it !!

LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal-statement often misunderstood by men.
A “LOUD SIGH” means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting time standing here and arguing with you over “NOTHING”

THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man.
“THAT'S OKAY” means she wants to think long and hard before deciding when and how you will pay for your mistakes

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not question it and faint. Just say you’re welcome

WHATEVER
This is a woman’s way to say @#$% YOU !!!



*email from my old friend*
*Be carefull guys.. listen to her attentively..watch her body languange.. or else you will get the wrong message..lolz*




Salam Damai.
Kampanye Damai Pemilu Indonesia 2009.

Ramadhan Mubbarak

Salam Damai.
Kampanye Damai Pemilu Indonesia 2009.